Preserving the parent-child relationship in separated families!
Frequently Asked Questions
What is joint physical care?
Joint Physical Care (JPC) is when both parents share
physical placement of the child(ren).
Simply defined, joint physical care allows
the child(ren) to live with each parent 50% of the
time during the year.
Research has shown that child(ren) need equal
access to both parents and joint physical care
accomplishes this challenge.
Parenting schedules are established to
determine when each parent has the child(ren) living
with them.
The most frequent joint physical care
schedule is one week at moms, the next week at dads,
and holidays are usually alternated. The State of
Iowa, allows parents to determine what parenting
schedule best meets the needs of their child(ren).
Joint physical care is established in Iowa Statute
598.41(5)(a).
What is Iowa law regarding recorded or taped
telephone conversations?
Iowa is a one party state.
It is legal to record phone calls as long as
one party to the telephone conversation has
knowledge and has given permission for the calls to
be recorded.
Attorneys are not allowed to recommend this
action to their clients, but I strongly urge you to
consider this method.
It is a great way to document and prove
events for future use. I advise you to document the
date and time on all outgoing calls prior to
completing the dialing.
How long does a judge have to rule on my case?
Iowa Code of Judicial Conduct states: “A judge
should dispose promptly of the business of the
Court” see Canon 3 (A)(5). Judges must file monthly
reports by tile 10th day of each month listing all
cases which have been under advisement for over 60
days as of the last day of the preceding month.
I am behind on my child support, can my ex-spouse
deny me scheduled visitations?
Absolutely not!
Iowa law treats denial of visitation as a
separate issue from child support.
If your are denied visitation, you may need
to file a "Contempt of Court" action either with the
help of an attorney or pro se.
You may download a "Contempt of Court" form
by clicking here.
Judge's generally do not like it when a
parent uses
children as leverage.
My ex-spouse won’t let me see the kids.
Do I still have to pay child support?
Yes, continue to make support payments as ordered.
Iowa law treats denial of visitation as a
separate issue from child support.
If this occurs you may need to file a
"Contempt of Court" action either with the help of
an attorney or pro se.
You may download a "Contempt of Court" form
by clicking here.
Judge's generally do not like it when a
parent uses
children as leverage.
Can a divorce decree be modified?
How do I go about modifying the divorce
decree?
A divorce decree can be modified anytime if both
parties agree.
If the parties disagree on a modification,
extenuating circumstances must exist (example: new
laws, changes in existing laws, long term loss of
income, party moving, etc.)
in order for a judge to modify the existing
ruling.
Please note: One party's dissatisfaction with the
stipulation is not grounds for modification.
In order to modify a divorce decree, you must file a
written “petition to modify decree of dissolution of
marriage” at the clerk’s office and pay the filing
fee. You may download a sample "Modification" form
here.

